Wednesday, July 18, 2018

AFFECTED and EFFECTUAL VITALITY



AFFECTED and EFFECTUAL VITALITY 


From my posts you have observed me using those themes which evoke empathy and sympathy, as in this video , or , in another direction, posts that inspire you to a visceral arousal . The latter spurs you to action in a nearly involuntary reach into your pants, while the former stirs your emotions  to thought (draining thoughts of what you would or want to do). 

In My NOT Humble Opinion (IMNHO),  both serve a purpose with different effects on your vitality; though both can be motivational. The one with the seemingly 'rough' arrest of the black man appeals to both your emotion and a feeling of powerlessness in not being able to do anything besides having that emotional evocation. The one at the link, if it doesn't emote a scandalized sense from you, it would have you seeking a a peak physiological experience through auto-eroticism (masturbation).  

I'm a believer in thinking globally, by way of the affected emotions, but acting locally (IF NOT PROXIMALLY!). If you are so emotionally moved, then you can and should begin to make plans on how you can resolve, positively, those stirred feelings. I would add the caveat, that just throwing-in-donations-or-money at the problem is IMNHO a cop-out for just feeling good and moving on, than making an ongoing physical commitment of an investment [though some activities are so compelling, but remote from you that 'donating' would seem to be the only feasible option to do]. 

On the 'other hand', figuratively and literally, a masturbatory, auto-erotic response could take you to a new resolution of consciousness by the realization of the atmospherics that come from that peak dimension of vitality achieved in your climactic (orgasmic) experience. From learning that such immediate gratification can involve other actions, also, besides the erotic; you will begin to be more discerning of your every moment thinking and awareness of how you expend or conserve your physiological energy and its assets for things that you may effect and not just ruminate and emote upon them as a pointless catharsis. 

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Wednesday, June 20, 2018

Our Mind: the self-fabricating tool-Corollary: Tools of our figurative and literal self-making


The WHAT, the HOW, and the WHY (not exactly in that sequence) are the tools that make the tools that make our conscious and subconscious intent. From objects we handle in our hands or ingest into our mind, to manipulating their physical-qualitative essence; those are also sculpting our own psyche. As was said about some quantum experiments that the tester becomes a variable of the test, itself; that is the effect of our mind's interacting.

The good part is that it can be more than some self-formed by circumstance play-dough. It can (or should I say speculatively-could be) its own CREATOR, than needing the intermediate Creator to be the Genesis-whether literal-secular-agnostic-or atheist. The dimensions and realms we could choose to build from the tools of our own meaning of symbols that we CONCEIVE from our spontaneous coitus from our inspired and aroused vitality of our own joy of daring to do will be the inseminating thrust of manifesting our future into the present so that there would be the committed obligation to that which we had a hand and a role in its conception.

Tuesday, May 29, 2018

Beyond the emotional dependencies of security and happiness via others





Beyond the emotional dependencies
of
security and happiness via others

If there has been one thing which I did to my self, it was 
conflating emotional security and happiness via others 
as the ‘road to being free’ if not freedom, itself. Probably 
from the needy infantile and toddler status with my 
parents [now deceased 39 -mother and 48-father years, 
making me wonder if those circumstances were 
ENTIRELY due to the cultural and social factors or was 
it a foreknown design for my experience and 
edification-going forward]  , where the graces of their 
acceptance was crucial. Just carried over to others who 
acted along similar reciprocating terms as my parent. Did 
I ever guess or imagine that my parents would ‘play me’ 
for the entitlement of their self-serving parental control? 
No.. I was clueless until early adolescence when I started 
to explore my own independence and they (my parents) 
found ways to reel me back under their control.

My responses to my parents began to extrapolate out 
and imprinted themselves in my responses to others-
authority figures and social associates, aka ‘friends’. 
Due to my own subservience to my parents’ ‘guiding’ 
controls, I never had developed a fierce commitment 
or devotion to anything for which I’d be willing 
“to sacrifice all others” for that ‘thang’. In so doing, I 
had put a conceptual  block on who I could be and 
what I could do.

Being emotionally secure and ‘happy’ were conflated 
with the atmospherics and aesthetics of being and 
living free...Only until I got into my 3rd marriage did I 
see the flawed nature of that pursuit. Not so much 
because of any shortcomings of the wives or other 
persons’ characters, but the improbable to impossible 
expectation I was placing on them that they could be a 
reliably consistent, let alone ‘24/7’ source, of validation 
and affirmation for me.

I had forsaken the autonomy of my own resilient creativeness 
and its potentials for being within the circle of acceptance 
and affection of others. I have learned from that error that the 
main craft to which one should be seeking is the nurturing and 
honing of my own qualities and their talents. In doing that, I will 
find my niche and any incidental symbiotic or synergistic 
associations that would supplement and compliment my own 
sense of contentment and satisfaction with my more 
conscientious efforts of doing what I could do in being my 'self' 
ala what was written in the 47th verse of the 18th chapter of 
the Bhagavad Gita:.
 
thus achieve that spiritual freedom of ‘comfort’ and ‘happiness’.

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Friday, May 4, 2018

Commercial associations versus Asocial associations - Classified Ad

Commercial associations versus Asocial associations 



Social relations are more abstract and ephemeral than the imperative relations you have with the compelling duties and incidental commercial transaction you MUST navigate to accomplish the necessary.. A matter of function versus aesthetic style.

Wednesday, May 2, 2018

You who subvert virtue

You who subvert virtue



Unintended consequences of the best intentions will not escape the retribution done for the sake of virtue